A week ago I mentioned in an off-hand Face book post I had purchased a copy of the "hot" book Fifty Shades of Grey. In the following days, several folks I know approached me publicly and privately with concern about this. Frankly, I really didn't know what all the fuss was about. So I dug a little deeper. When I bought the book I only knew that a lot of moms were reading it. And talking about it in giggles. But they would only mention glossed over allusions to its content, no specifics. So, when I bought it I was thinking it was more like Twilight - something to pass the time, but give no literary honor to.
But this post is not about the book, or whether I read it or not (I actually plan to return it). This post is not about if YOU read it or not. This post is about my experience as a Christian female who is just as big a sinner as anyone else and just as easily tempted by the fads of the world. And it's about an example of how having other Christians in my life is a comfort and support, especially when we may be making poor choices.
My friends took a risk approaching me with their concern. Some felt they may have crossed a line. I'll admit I was a bit embarrassed to be caught in such a situation. But maybe that's the point? Their concern made me find out a bit more information and think twice before I acted. What a blessing. And what an example of what we are called to do as Christians. We are not to be judgmental, but we are called to speak the truth in love. If we can not appeal to fellow Christians about how we live our lives, then how much more difficult is it to do that effectively with those who have not experienced God's grace.
SO, as opposed to being annoyed with my friends, I am grateful for their example. And I am hopeful that I may use that example in future situations. I have many Christian friends who probably saw my post and made a judgment OR shook their heads but thought it was none of their business. SO, thanks to the ones brave enough to call me on it.
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